GE: It's certainly recommended, but condoms are 98% effective if used correctly. Should I be on birth control when I have penetrative sex for the first time? Remember if you're using latex condoms, you only want to use water-based lube. However, adding lubrication like Sustain will make the in-and-out more pleasurable. While there may be more friction and discomfort with using a condom, it's important to protect yourself and safety comes first.ĪL: A lubricated latex condom can help ease any possible discomfort. RB: Perhaps, but you always should protect yourself against sexually transmitted infections.
Remember that even if you're on the pill or have an IUD, this does not protect from STIs. Be sure the condom you use is lubricated and use some extra lube if possible. Will penetrative sex hurt less if I don't use a condom? The most important thing about your first experience is that you are sober - you are clearly making a positive choice - and that you feel safe and close with the person you are choosing. Only you can determine with the help of a loving partner what feels most connected and pleasurable.
There is no 'best' position for everyone. JF: Experiment openly with your partner to see what feels best.
